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-No longer felt physically attracted
-Couldn't have an intelligent conversation with the person that often
-Felt like I was their mother at some point
-They were emotionally or physically cruel to me
-They were into drugs
-They tried to grope me on a first date
-They smelled weird and it was off-putting
-They completely disregarded my feelings
-They were always working and never made time for the relationship
-They made me feel like I was fat/ugly/stupid/lazy
-They were very self-important and selfish
-They were unkind and thoughtless
-They were totally unromantic
-They cheated on me
-They had very different goals in life than my own
-We had very little in common
Think that's the list of reasons for now.
How about you NorthernGirl?
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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.
Fernando Pessoa, 1918
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