OP: Yeah, this is you not being a horrible person. Echo: Having preferences doesn't necessarily make you shallow, chief.
I don't feel bad when I walk away from girls that don't meet my needs. It's better to break it off fast than lead someone on.
Don't waste your time, their time, or involve any more emotion than necessary here. Just think: You're examining raw materials.
I've broken off dates with girls because they turned out to be obese, religious, Republican, and my favorite, a broke-nose gold digger.
Somebody might be beautiful on the inside, but that doesn't mean you have to put up with their unattractive outside.
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Originally Posted by Logarithm
Bleh. I like real life dating better.
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Define "real life." Turns out wherever you go... issues abound. You might think that picking up a little hottie at a bar will be easier, but you end up with one that has daddy issues or a kid at home. Use online dating as a powertool... you can contact many women quickly without having to waste anybody's time or money. The email format of many sites fosters frank, accelerated discussion. Use it to your advantage to find out who's up to your particular standards. It isn't wrong to ask for full body shot and I gotta tell ya: if you don't like those "BBW," beware those that don't post one in their profile.