Originally Posted by wooÐs

But everyone's so quick to judge this guy as being a douche when they when they know absolutely nothing about him...

Originally Posted by Starkizzer

Well that is all information that might have given some of our cynics a different perspective. ...But you also can't come here and ask for our advice but not give the full story, not that we can ever know the full story.

Originally Posted by cj2112

If you're confused (and I actually do understand why you are) you need to tell him. Ask him how he sees you guys. Don't come to him upset or pissed, but with a genuine desire to get to the bottom of what's bugging you. Don't expect to hear what you want to hear, but be open to what he's saying. Have an adult conversation, and you will likely understand this better.

Originally Posted by woods

She just needs to talk to him.