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Old 11-23-2009, 07:05 PM   #41 (permalink)
cj2112
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Originally Posted by PrettyInInk5 View Post
Okay... Well... I am 20 but I have been in a long term relationship, and my life is not a romantic comedy, I asked for advice hoping not to be criticized about my age... and yes he does call the very next day... he texts me and calls me everyday, and I never go visit him for just a night, its for 3-4 day periods, and he also comes up to my house and visits me. I just thought I was more than a booty call, because we dont have sex constantly, as i have with previous booty calls. We do other things such as walk around detroit, go to baseball games, go to dinner, go to the movies, go to the bar, etc... Thats what made this all so confusing to me!
I can see why you're confused, but really, it doesn't sound like he wants a relationship. The nekked pics of his ex on his phone just confirm that he's not exclusive. I think the jealousy id weird, but rather than try and guess, I'd be asking him wtf that was all about.


If you're confused (and I actually do understand why you are) you need to tell him. Ask him how he sees you guys. Don't come to him upset or pissed, but with a genuine desire to get to the bottom of what's bugging you. Don't expect to hear what you want to hear, but be open to what he's saying. Have an adult conversation, and you will likely understand this better.
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