While I thank everyone for the advice, I still dont think i've quite conveyed the issue correctly. I'm in no way trying to push or force her to do something she isn't comfortable doing. She's 100% a-ok with talking dirty in the bedroom, she's not shy or uncomfortable about it. The issue is that she has absolutely no experience with actually doing it, and therefor is looking for tips on dirty talking technique (ideas of what to say, voice inflection, what *not* to say, etc).
To draw a parallel, the situation is exactly like if she was ready and willing to say, give a blowjob, but she's never done it before and doesn't want to hurt the man. So she would read one of the million "guide to amazing sex" books or "how to give your man a great blowjob" blogs/articles to learn more about how to give a blowjob the man will enjoy. We're looking for resources like those columns/books, except about talking dirty in bed instead of blowjobs.
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