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I dont know about it. In my life I've never known a real woman say "I'm your dirty little slut, fill with me with hot cum"... I'd be quite taken aback if any girl I was with said it, I think stuff like that only happens in porno movies - but perhaps I've had a sheltered life?
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Yes you have. There are actually quite a few of us who've said those words and more outside of porn.
To the OP...I sort of agree with the others. It isn't something you can learn from a book or really something you can teach. There has to be a basic comfort-level that can take some people years or even decades to develop. She's already got an idea of what you want and will likely get only *more* awkward instead of less if you push. The best thing to do is respond enthusiastically when she does say something.
You can also ind some porn or erotica with the language you like. Let her watch/read and comment how the language turns you on.