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I dont know about it. In my life I've never known a real woman say "I'm your dirty little slut, fill with me with hot cum"... I'd be quite taken aback if any girl I was with said it, I think stuff like that only happens in porno movies - but perhaps I've had a sheltered life?
I dont think any article is going to tell you of things like this in any case... maybe the best thing is just to not concentrate too much on the details and just try to both do what comes naturally. If she feel's like she is putting on a performance maybe thats why she feels reticent about it... personally I have always found concentrating on things like that creates more pressure and its more fun for both people to just feel open and confiden enough to do what they feel.
But I would ask - without trying to being critical about it - what it is about having your girlfriend run herself down with negative commnts like calling herself a slut that is appealing?
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