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Originally Posted by Strange Famous
If she doesnt like to swear I dont see the value in trying to encourge her, unless you are somehow especially excited by bad language.
I know that if for example my girlfriend starting calling people "cunt" or "cuntie" and saying "fuck" every other sentence (as I talk unfortunately) I wouldnt exactly be excited about it... not that I could criticise her over it, as I am very foul mouthed and inarticulate myself.
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Not quite what I was talking about, though maybe I wasn't too clear in my post. She has no aversion to saying things along the lines of "I'm your dirty little slut, fill me with your hot cum," etc. The issue is that when we're having sex, she doesn't really say those things because she just doesn't know
what to say, when to say it, etc. I was hoping to maybe find some articles or some books specifically about being more open with this kind of thing. She's the kind of person that's nervous that she's going to do something "wrong" and offend me, and i've told her that i'm perfectly comfortable with the fact that she might not get it "right," the important thing is that she just lets loose and goes with whatever comes to mind, but these sorts of things never really sink in unless she reads about them. I've found a handful of ebooks specifically about "talking dirty" in the bedroom, but they're all the "here's two paragraphs, for just $35.99 you can read the rest and have the BEST SEX OF YOUR LIFE!!!!" scams.