Damn, pangavan, that could be a good thing (being that you are very virile and you now have a daughter) or you and your wife have the worst luck in the world. Me I would say I'd look at it with the first attitude I mentioned.
But to the original question, if you gotta ask that question (I'm assuming it is in jest for a laugh) you shouldn't be commiting the act. So participate at your own risk. You might want to talk with pangavan. He might be able to give you some really good advice.
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