Have her committed or put in jail where she cannot be enabled any longer. As much as you love her, your enabling her is hurting her in the long run. She needs help, not alibis. She needs to be in a place where she can face whatever she's dealing with, not an escape route to fuck/drink/smoke it away. Because that never works. If you love her as much as you say you do, stop enabling her and get her some professional help. It might mean she's pissed at you for awhile, but them's the breaks. One day she will thank you.
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