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Originally Posted by Cimarron29414
Will, has this friend EVER been with a guy before?
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Not many. And some of them are gay themselves.
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Originally Posted by Cimarron29414
The reason I ask is this: it could be possible that this friend is curious but is looking for a safe environment to explore - a place where curiosities could be satisfied without the complications of being with someone who has long term expectations. Perhaps, those are the signals you are reading from her. Perhaps she sees in you someone who could handle that exploration and take it only for what it was - curiosity. I can envision a conversation that would get to the bottom of the flirtation, offer the opportunity for safely exploring the other side, and still framing it a way as not to offend. I wouldn't go so far as to say you would be doing her a favor, but in truth, how many people get to check out the other grass without leaving their side?
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So you're saying I'm like heterosexual
lite, all the man without the guilt. I've considered that (including the only half-funny food reference). Still, what I might be interpreting as timidness on the issue could be me seeing something that's not there. I'm waiting for stronger signals for now, and frankly I'm just fine staying friends with her. She's good people.
Are there any ladies that enjoy the company of ladies on TFP that would be willing to offer their perspective? You can post anonymously by checking the little box on the upper right as you post.