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Cimarron29414 · 11-10-2009, 12:21 PM

Will, has this friend EVER been with a guy before?

The reason I ask is this: it could be possible that this friend is curious but is looking for a safe environment to explore - a place where curiosities could be satisfied without the complications of being with someone who has long term expectations. Perhaps, those are the signals you are reading from her. Perhaps she sees in you someone who could handle that exploration and take it only for what it was - curiosity. I can envision a conversation that would get to the bottom of the flirtation, offer the opportunity for safely exploring the other side, and still framing it a way as not to offend. I wouldn't go so far as to say you would be doing her a favor, but in truth, how many people get to check out the other grass without leaving their side?

11-10-2009, 12:21 PM	#40 (permalink)
Cimarron29414 Still Free Location: comfortably perched at the top of the bell curve!	Will, has this friend EVER been with a guy before? The reason I ask is this: it could be possible that this friend is curious but is looking for a safe environment to explore - a place where curiosities could be satisfied without the complications of being with someone who has long term expectations. Perhaps, those are the signals you are reading from her. Perhaps she sees in you someone who could handle that exploration and take it only for what it was - curiosity. I can envision a conversation that would get to the bottom of the flirtation, offer the opportunity for safely exploring the other side, and still framing it a way as not to offend. I wouldn't go so far as to say you would be doing her a favor, but in truth, how many people get to check out the other grass without leaving their side? __________________ Gives a man a halo, does mead. "Here lies The_Jazz: Killed by an ambitious, sparkly, pink butterfly."