I don't see any issue with responding to overtures. I do have an issue with invading someone else's psychic space. If she defined herself as lesbian then you're not being fair to her by hitting on her. If you are feeling sexual tension and it's difficult to handle being near her, then if you have a relatinship that enables you to discuss it, do that, and if not, you need to step back. But if you're both feeling an attraction, then she's more likely to have bi feelings than totally lesbian, and if she's ok with seeing where it goes, and you're interested, too, then go for it.
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