I like being honest with my irl friends, almost to a fault (I used to have a problem with dishonesty, if we're being honest). Still, I'm not stupid, I know that every lesbian in the world has to put up with guys hitting on them out of ignorance or trying to convert them out of hubris. The last thing I want to do is become another one of those guys, especially with someone I'm good friends with.
I don't want this thread to be just about my situation, though. I was hoping this might be a good conversation in a broader sense. If I glean some enlightenment, super, but I hope others can, too.
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