I think the only ethics of dating/screwing are that it is best not to cheat, not to lie, and not to hurt people on purpose.
I think all gay people are open to the idea of being straight - its so much the culturally dominant position that you would have to be incredibly insular not to be.
I think the real issue is liking a friend a bit more than a friend, but not being sure how she feels, and not knowing whether to risk rejection and losing a friend... but if some kind of gener/sexual politics thing is a justification for you I think it cant hurt.
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