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On impotence
Now...the thing is, my whole life - I have always been able to get an erection pretty much within 1 minute of thinking about it, or being in any kind of sexy situation, even multiple times in one sitting. It can happen also when I dont particularly want it to, and never in my life have I not been able to get one when I did want to, until last night.
I was with my girlfriend, and we were like in bed together, kissing and so on...and I kind of kept getting a semi and then losing it again. She didnt make a big deal about it and without going into details we did something else that didnt involve the need for an erection on my behalf. She didnt make a big deal out of it, and I tried to act calm - but personally I am pretty concerned.
To answer the obvious questions - I didnt drink that night at all, I do smoke (only cigarettes and not much), I have been under a lot of pressure this week at work and havent had a day off in 12 days, I am overweight, I am in my early 30's - but this has NEVER happened to me before.
On the way to work this morning on the bus I was idly directing a porno movie in my head and without thinking about it got a hard on then which I had to repress by imagining my balls being rapped in a towell full of ice cubes - so I dont think anything is medically wrong with me - but I dont know if I should go and see a doctor in any case? When I got home tonight I watched a porno video for 5 minutes and nothing happened again.
Could this just be a one off, or could there be something seriously wrong with me? Obviously its the kind of thing I only have any experience or knowledge of with regards to myself, I dont know how it is for other men.
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