We were both 14 and in a long (at least by teen-age standards) relationship - we stayed together almost 2 years and he was my first everything. 10 years later we hooked up and started dating again - it ended very badly and I truly hated him. Then he committed suicide about 2 years after we broke up and my heart broke, but I was able to let go of the hate and remember all that was good about him. And the sex - the second "grown up" time around - the sex was amazing!