Thankyou for your comments everybody
I know it is going to be hard, of course we know that, but with both our families supporting us, we are going to make it every step of the way (Obviously it may get hard, it may not be a fairytale time) But trust me on this, the pregnancy in itself is hard enough.. !
However i know it is only an opinion, and i did ask for advise but i can't quite understand the common sense in Manic_Skafe's post
"What's the point of your relationship? Surely having a kid establishes that you'll be a part of each others lives for a long time to come but I suggest you put some thought toward whether or not you're really interested in a traditional long term sexually exclusive relationship.
I couldn't hack it and such expectations from one of my partners is a total deal breaker.
You're 18 and so no reasonable person would expect you to know what you want but I think you should be very careful before taking things any further and making them that much more complex."
I haven't anywhere said i don't want this child, and i don't want to be with the mother for the rest of my life, the 2 people i have text, on not quite so common occurrence, i don't really see in that way what so ever, to me, it's just like texting a person on a porn line, just for a quick laugh, (Haven't ever done this) id trust myself in a room with these 2 people even if i was drunk for that matter.
It's not a fantasy however, because if we were sexually active, i probably wouldn't be talking to these people anymore,
But on your post, id understand that if i had turned around and said, i don't want to be with her anyway. I want to be having sex with other people, because i DON'T.
I feel if i told her, i'd be upsetting her for no reason what so ever, because the text means nothing,
So i should maybe take everybodies advise, not tell her, and never fucking do it again, what's the point, to end up worrying again?
I wan't to keep my girlfriend thanks!
Love you all
x
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Ahhh and babies name, that's a toughy :P We're quite undesisive, but we are thinking about it.. I think we both like Lily-Anne for a girl, Aiden for a boy, but i don't think Aiden is happening, because obviously mummy is most important and i think she is going off the name :P But i shall defo let you all know,
I can't wait