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Kinda like Spiritsoar I had an experience.
In a 7yr relationship my fiancee was always accusing me of cheating, even though she was a drop dead gorgeous (in my eyes) model. I had no reason to ever snoop in her diary or phone or stuff.
One night she confronted me (again) that she had "hard proof" I was cheating this time. I again wondered what ingenious story she might have since the highlight of most days on campus were sitting in the computer lab cold and hungry, or cleaning toilets at my dad's shop.
She found a letter of me writing to a girl talking about how positive life can be and that one day we can see each other again and it was signed LOVE and my name.
The only problem was I wrote this letter in class and stuffed it in the back of the thick textbook. She actually flipped through ALL my text books at some point that night and found that folded letter!
Oh, it was to my little sister who was away in treatment and not doing well. Apparently I didnt address the letter "dear sister" but I just started writing.
this was just ONE incident of many that I should have had a lightbulb turn on in my head telling me something was wrong.
The day I did find out something was wrong (her having an affair), her defensive remark was "well, you have to had known for years and been ok with it, its in my damn diary that's in the room, and don't tell me you didn't read it!"
speechless....................
snooping is bad. I am still defensive and hide passwords and emails, though they are just bills usually.
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