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Communication?
Please. I've been accused of being terrible at "communication", however, I've never been accused of not being into sex. For me, sex has always been the EASY part of a relationship. It's the rest of the shit that I have a hard time with.
Anyway, the the original poster.....
LEAVE HIM NOW.
It's not going to get any better.
You either accept this as your lot in life, or you get the hell out sooner rather than later. You don't want to stick this out for 10 or 20 years. You only get one lifetime. You're only 24 (what the hell are you doing getting married at 24 for??) you will find someone else. Fuck what other people have to say about it - they're not in your shoes.
Sorry to be blunt, but it's the truth. People don't really change (as per Madli). They are like elastics - they stretch a bit, but then they go back to their original shape sooner or later.
You could send him to all the shrinks in the world, all the counsillors, nothing will end up chanaging, and ask yourself, is this really something you should be forcing anyway? It's not like you're trying to convince him to quit smoking or give up McDonalds.
What usually ends up happening in my experience is that people polarize. (And I'm speaking from experience here.) You will only get hornier and more frustrated and he will only avoid it even more.
Get out now.
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