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I guess I have been on both sides of the prudish issue. My wife was a virgin when we married and did not even masturbate. It was some time before she had her first orgasm.
Early on it was just the basics. Only one position and no variety. It just took time to work through that. She was also stressed the first few years of marriage since it was the first time away from home.
A couple years later when I was in my mid 20's. I was under a lot of stress in my first real job. My wife started opening up, but my drive dropped off.
The long and short is I have found that stress levels can also have a big impact on your sex drive. This could be a contributing factor. I ended up quitting the stressful job when I was snapping at my wife and baby.
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