It took a while for me to make the connection between the position I was in, during sex, and the ability to have, or the intensity of my orgasms. Although it is a turn on to spread wide for my guy, I find that I lose a lot of clitoral sensitivity in that position. Luckily my partner and I switch it up all the time, so I get my fair share of pleasure. Does anyone else find one position gives a better orgasm than another?
Also...question for the middle aged ladies...anyone else notice a decline in the intensity of the orgasmic spasms? It still feels good, but something is missing.
