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Wakazashi · 10-14-2009, 11:47 PM

This is what you say: "I'm not telling"
This is something you should NEVER talk about no matter what your partner says. (Exception, you've been married forever)
how do you respond to "why?"
1. Because it's none of your business.
2. It's in the past, so it doesn't matter now.
3. Because I don't want to tell you <-- recommended response.

It's simple refuse to give anyone such a number. They NEVER really want to know. You should never want to know someone so completely that there are no secrets either. Your supposed to trust for a reason. They will get over not knowing much faster, and I say this from experience, and repeating "I don't want to tell you".

Two more things.
1. If you don't give them a number, you don't have to lie about it.
2. Make sure next time the subject comes up you tell your next partner you don't want to know BEFORE you get a number. Saves you from having to tell.

10-14-2009, 11:47 PM	#44 (permalink)
Wakazashi Upright	This is what you say: "I'm not telling" This is something you should NEVER talk about no matter what your partner says. (Exception, you've been married forever) how do you respond to "why?" 1. Because it's none of your business. 2. It's in the past, so it doesn't matter now. 3. Because I don't want to tell you <-- recommended response. It's simple refuse to give anyone such a number. They NEVER really want to know. You should never want to know someone so completely that there are no secrets either. Your supposed to trust for a reason. They will get over not knowing much faster, and I say this from experience, and repeating "I don't want to tell you". Two more things. 1. If you don't give them a number, you don't have to lie about it. 2. Make sure next time the subject comes up you tell your next partner you don't want to know BEFORE you get a number. Saves you from having to tell. Last edited by Wakazashi; 10-14-2009 at 11:51 PM..