Originally Posted by squeeeb

sounds selfish and childish and it's sad, but it's true. its a great reason to leave someone.

some people, both male and female, are not as sexual as others. some don't care how often or what they get sexually.

you appear to be concerned about oral, and it's a totally valid concern.

understand the psychology behind oral. it's a submissive act, it involves control and takes trust. she might not like the submissive feeling, she might not like the loss of control (although in reality, she is in control, but people don't see it that way).

seriously, if it bothers you now, it's still gonna bother you years down the road.

sexual chemistry is an important part of a relationship, we are humans, we are sexual beings no matter how much we want to deny it and think we are above such base cravings. we eat, we shit, we fuck, we sleep. take one of these away and we are bothered and don't feel right.

dump her (gently and nicely) and move on.

Originally Posted by Lady Bear Cub

strangely, i agree.

Originally Posted by najo

1) Sex is important. You both fullfilling each other's sexual needs is critical to a healthy relationship.

2) Communication is important. You two need to speak openly, respectfully and honestly with each other.