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Originally Posted by jewels
According to Discovery.com, 20% do. But other sites list as low as 10. Personally, I think those stats are skewed by those who were ashamed and untruthful.
While I respect your personal preference, SF, I'm compelled to ask why you find the idea "a bit odd". Even the greatest lover can't keep up with some women's needs. Why deprive her? In my personal experience, the only man who wasn't thrilled with the idea of watching me get off became jealous of The Toy.
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I'm a personal fan of the toys, but I also love watching a woman play with herself. I've bought my gfs toys before, as I'm not always there. Plus, anything that help her get off faster and harder is a big plus in my book. I have found that a woman who knows her own body will enjoy sex that much more and will also lead to better sex on my end too. I bought my only gf that lived with me a toy, she knew when I would get off work and would be playing with herself when I walked in the door. I used to love coming home and hearing that faint "vrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr" sound coming from our bedroom. This also fucked with my brain-to-penis connection that sometimes I would get a semi when I heard the can opener running in the other room.
I say, if it is something that helps a woman want to have more sex with you, go for it. Most of the men I've heard say they are threatened by toys are the ones that only care about themselves in bed. I am not the world's greatest lover, but I try my damnest to get a girl off in bed. Usually female orgasms lead to her letting me put my penis in her again. That's a win in my book.