Hi again everyone,
Took everyone's advice on board and had a long conversation with hubby. I wont bore you with all the tiny details, but the jist of it is there are a lot of things I wasn't aware of that I am now:
- He agrees that its not often enough
- He's taken it seriously on board, realises its an issue
- He agrees its too vanilla
- He's let me know what stuff he likes
- He's let me know of things that i've said/done that've hurt his self-esteem without my realising
- He's let me know that he'd like it if I initiated more, and would never shut me done (fear of mine)
So basically we've come up with a pretty good solutions. Its been a real eye-opener for me because in some ways i'm just as guility as him. I think there were some things that we didn't know about each other that were affecting our physical relatiionship, and its finally come out. I know he loves me heaps, and he an amazing guy and I'm so blessed to have someone like him. Our only issue has been sex, and i think it'll be ok from now on because of the acknowledgement and honesty that's finally come out. Hooray!
