Hi again,
Nope he's not on any medication and he doesn't have depression or any other mental problems. There's no change in his behaviour, he's had a low sex drive for as long as i've known him. We're very good communicators, so we've both done our fair share of expressing and listening. His response: its all fine and i need to realise theres more to life than sex (which i'm well aware of lol). I'm no sex maniac, but i'd like it on at least a weekly basis! Touche on the quotes
I've been thinking that that's quite a low sex drive for a relatively young guy as well!'
Nope, he wants just vanilla. He likes lingerie as much as the next guy, but I feel like I shouldn't have to put it on constantly just to get some? I'd be willing to, but it seems a little unfair for me to put in effort while he does jack? Oh, and no there's no chance he's gay. He definitely likes women.
We've been married 15 months now. He's not cheating, when i was insecure i had all these doubts in my head but i know he isn't. He has a low sex drive and I just need to figure out if I can improve it, or whether i'm the cause of it
This is the biggest self esteem killer, i might listen to some angry music!