This is something I deal with as well. I'm a freak in bed. She is not. On a good month we have sex once a week, usually on sunday. On a regular month we skip a week or two. She is not into dirty talk, letting loose, oral (maybe once or twice recently) or general kink. She has a great time, but it's not kinky time.
As for me, shoot. I'm up for anything. She loves it when I lavish her with kisses and affection, but she doesn't really know how to reciprocate.
Still, I love her to death and I relieve my tensions in the shower daily, so it's not all bad. We do have lots of fun together even after almost 16 years of being together. You either compromise or you don't. I don't regret the compromises I've made.
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