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Originally Posted by paddlepop
Hi all!
I've done lots of reading as to what to do to spice things up, but its all been an epic fail: he's got no fantasies, not into anything besides 'normal' lingerie, not into dirty talk etc etc.
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In your reading have you come across a book titled "The Sex Starved Marriage." ?
I've read it, and it may be of interest to you.
Here's the authors website.
Marriage Sex Problems Quiz - Is Your Marriage Sex-Starved?
You can read the first chapter here.
Divorce Busting® - Books on Marriage - First Chapter of Sex-Starved Marriage
A Sample paragraph...
"Contrary to what you might be thinking, saying a marriage is sex-starved tells you virtually nothing about how much or how little sex a couple is actually having. It's not just about sexless couples who have slept in separate bedrooms for years. In fact, it includes couples who, according to national surveys have an "average" amount of sex each month. It's not about numbers. Since, unlike vitamins, there are no recommended daily requirements to insure a healthy sex life, a sex-starved marriage is more about the fallout that occurs when one spouse is deeply unhappy with his/her sexual relationship and this unhappiness is ignored, minimized, or dismissed. The resulting disintegration of the relationship encapsulates the real meaning of a sex-starved marriage."