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Cromp and Fugly said it...
I've said it twice tonight...
Communication and Compromise.
The key to any relationship issue.
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When I first started a sexual relationship with Jen, she was pretty reserved. It was a problem for me. I love the girl, but I can't deal with boring sex. I talked to her about it, made my needs clear, found out what her needs were, and turns out she didn't like how reserved she was either, but she couldn't just jump into all the things I like. I had to take it slow and allow her to get comfortable with coming out of her shell. We still try new things all the time. Some things end in great success, a lot of things (some of which being things I really enjoy) she just can't do.
Point is, she's trying to be more adventurous for me, and I'm willing to give up some things for her. That's how relationships work.
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"The fact is that censorship always defeats its own purpose, for it creates, in the end, the kind of society that is incapable of exercising real discretion..." - Henry Steel Commager
"Punk rock music is great music played by really bad, drunk musicians." -Fat Mike
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