Hi all!
Let me start off by saying I love my hubby lots, but our biggest problem has always been our sex life. I've always thought of guys as having a very healthy sexual appetite, but mine doesn't seem to have that lusty passionate side. Dont get me wrong, hes passionate when its happening and during foreplay, but not at other times (eg doesn't do/say anything lustful before or after). And forget pillow talk.
I just feel really frustrated and hoe-y having to constantly bring it up. He's not interested in counselling because he doesnt think anything is wrong. I've done lots of reading as to what to do to spice things up, but its all been an epic fail: he's got no fantasies, not into anything besides 'normal' lingerie, not into dirty talk etc etc.
If its important, he's more than happy with getting some once or twice a month. This is right from the beginning of our marriage (we've only been married a bit over a year). I don't know what more to do; the only solution i'm coming up with now is finding ways to reduce my sex drive and sticking with his 1-2 times a month
