30 in 10 years? Allowing for several being one night stands, that still leaves time for 90% of 10 years being chaste.
There is NO wrong number. If the number is high because you love sex and want to have it as variously as possible, then good for you.
The only problem is if you are ashamed of WHY you had sex, and in those cases even 1 is too many. If you were forced into it, if you were coerced, if you used it to validate self esteem issues, then maybe you need to fix those issues somehow, but none of that makes the number itself a problem.
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Originally Posted by Punk.of.Ages
Numbers don't matter. Whether or not there's green fungus growing on your genitalia does.
I understand a lot of people don't see this issue the same way. That's why I make sure the "numbers" discussion doesn't come up until I know for sure the girl can handle the fact that my only answer is, "I lost count a while ago..."
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Is it only green, or is any fungus bad?