God I feel like such a monk.
I'm not sure one can put a figure on "too many." I think it's more about whether you're responsible about things: STDs, emotional issues, harming others' relationships, etc. That matters more, I think.
But it's not that I'm an authority. Relatively speaking (in reference to this thread), I've had very little sex.
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Knowing that death is certain and that the time of death is uncertain, what's the most important thing?
—Bhikkhuni Pema Chödrön
Humankind cannot bear very much reality.
—From "Burnt Norton," Four Quartets (1936), T. S. Eliot
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