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Originally Posted by FelixP
Be open with him. Just try to talk about in in a non-confrontational way. I can see being upset, by there's really no reason to be angry, not yet anyway. He fucked up by not deleting that picture, or even continuing to talk to the girl if it is indeed WOW girl, but don't go off half-cocked. You know him better than we do, so if you're capable of seeing the forest through the trees you'll have a decent chance of telling whether or not he's lying when you guys finally sit down to talk about it. Good luck. Hope things work out for you two.
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Speaking strictly from a man's perspective (which the OP requested), this is probably the best advice in the thread.
Wait until he returns, but don't make it the first thing out of your mouth. Casually tell him you found the photo, but
do not give him the impression that you are freaking out over this. You'll put him on the defensive immediately and the conversation will get you nowhere...fast.
What you want is the truth. In the meantime, you don't have the truth so all the conjecture is just causing you needless emotional turmoil. Relax and focus on what you do know.
The fact that he doesn't mind you using his computer should be of enormous comfort to you. If he was worried or wanted to cover-up something going on, he wouldn't give you access while he was away.