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reading your proposed approach to the situation with your boyfriend, don't think it's the right way to go.
How about:
So I was working on the computer, trying to post an ad on craigslist, and wanted to add a picture. When I was browsing for one, I was surprised to find, in the middle of the pictures folder, a picture of some semi-naked woman licking her pierced nipple. I was a little bit confused by it. I know the picture is not mine. Is this someone you know? Where did you get it? Because in the picture info it said someone had emailed it to you, and looking at the image it looks like that girl from WOW you know. I don't know, I'm sorry I stumbled on it, unintentionally, but I did. I don't like you having a naked picture of her. I find it a bit upsetting and at the time I felt angry too. So I'd like to know what you have to say about it because I'm not happy.
I think this is a little lighter and more open to dialogue.
Good luck!
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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.
Fernando Pessoa, 1918
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