Please don't take this as a personal attack, but there is a huge difference between choosing to be celibate and being afraid of the social interactions or situations that would come with sex and thus not having sex in my book. HUGE.
I think it's a completely different set of issues to want something but be afraid to get it so you don't get it vs. not wanting something so you don't get it.
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