Thanks for the responses guys/gals
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Originally Posted by Toaster126
but I would think about the fact that wallowing in my own shit wouldn't bring them back, wouldn't prove I loved them more, and wouldn't be what they would want me to be doing. My loved one would want me to be happy and healthy.
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That's what I try to keep in mind. I know she wouldn't like to see me like this. I try to keep myself going forward, but it's very tough at times.
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Originally Posted by Charlatan
The only thing I can tell, looking back, is that time is your friend. Over time the pain will fade. It will still be there if you choose to explore it but it will not be as front and centre and all consuming as it is now.
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As everyone else has said
. Just that its so painful. She meant the world to me. Time is gonna take forever
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Originally Posted by wooÐs
Not only do you need to surround yourself with supportive friends and family members, but you need to check into getting some professional support as well. This doesn't mean you're a weak person by any means. But it does mean that you're an exceptional human being who's capable of deeply loving others. Not everyone can do this.
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Only problem is that I'm uninsured atm. Unless there are free professional help that I can go into, I can't exactly dish out any money for them.