I don't feel jealous of my SO's ex. I
do feel distaste for him, however.
He is a black hole of understanding IMO because he 1) spent years jacking off instead of sexing his beautiful, hot, adventurous and willing wife, and 2) he seems to only want to screw her
now by jacking around with child support, his steadfast refusal to sign divorce papers after 5 years apart (he lives with and has purchased a home with another woman), and 3) the poisoning of the minds of his current SO and her live-in mom (which sucks because they are the step-mom/step-grandma of my Lady's kids).
The guy is selfish, grasping and meticulously crafty when it comes to breaking things down into numbers and what I think of as alogorithms of behaviour patterns, and then using these patterns to build up long term screwing over of my Lady and what she wants with her kids.
I don't feel jealous of him- in fact I am stronger, better looking, and more creative. Plus I know I can take him even though he is 9 or 10 years my junior (1800's, your ideals are here
)
The fuckwad.