Guys NEVER EVER really respect their exes. IMHO. This is a fact. It's done & over and everyone should stop living in the past with "what if". You must remember that he is with you now & has chosen you after all those other exes. Why would you, perhaps the hottest woman ever to grace tfp...worry about those old flames? Don't go "borrowing trouble." Best advice ever, I think. You are a bit insecure because nothing is written in stone & you really care, but don't let your insecurities ruin a great relationship. Have some faith. Seriously. If it's meant to be... it will work out. And you just can't push the river....Relax. Enjoy the times that are here now. Be in the moment and life will work out. (Hard as hell when you're wildly in love, huh?)
I smile because I was there a long time ago.
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