Going through their facebook/myspace/emails and other personal stuff will always lead to jealousy. Seeing all these names and faces you may not recognize with relations that have not been fully explained/disclosed to you will create lots of questions, and these questions can destroy relationships. I don't want to go so far to say it creates paranoia, but sometimes those "what if" questions take a life of their own and run rampant.
It is a lot to do with trust issues, and for most people it is mostly unwarranted. Unless he has a history of dipping back into his ex pool then you shouldn't be worrying over it. If partners can't trust each other then what good is the relationship?
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