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					Originally Posted by  Baraka_Guru
					 
				 
				Visible insecurity (read: jealousy) isn't an attractive quality. You need to rein it in. 
			
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 Isn't visible insecurity simply a symptom of the larger (real) problem?  Insecurity itself is the issue here.
What good is it to have a cool facade when you're a Patrick Bateman underneath?  That's selloutitry at its finest.
Sometimes you just have to put on the blindfold, smoke that cigarette, and pray they don't blow a hole in your heart.
All the paranoia and preoccupation are way bad and only get worse if you pick at 'em.
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I'd express your feelings to the guy in a manner that doesn't involve cooking a pet rabbit in a large pot of boiling water.