Talk to him about your feelings of jealousy, your slight age difference, and how you are perceiving his actions. Don't attribute causes to his actions so rapidly and negatively... all of the things you spoke of in your post may have nothing to do with you or even be positive in his eyes. His responses and questions for you when you COMMUNICATE WHAT YOU ARE THINKING will tell you what you want to know.
It also sounds like you are working yourself up with negative self-talk which in either case won't do positive things for you.
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