I think mandy and I tried to abstain leading up to the wedding. It was more her idea than mine, but I'm horny all the time so she wasn't surprised. If I recall correctly, we managed the last week before the wedding without any sex or masturbation.
As cliche as it may sound, the sex on the wedding night was un-fucking-believable. Even though we were tired from being up and about the whole day and maybe a little drunk from the reception. I think the ylang ylang massage oil and the big hotel bed helped.
My advice? Let her get you off with a nice blowjob first. Then, once you've recovered, you can spend the rest of the evening banging out O's for her.
