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I might be able to provide some perspective on the topic.
I'm married and I love my wife. We have watched porn together and she has no problems with it. But I still feel this overwhelming need to keep my porn watching and masturbatory practices private.
I think the reason for my secretiveness is because of how I grew up. Sex was never discussed in my household and I would have been mortified if my parents ever found out what I was up to. And as the old saying goes, "old habits die hard."
Not to say that this is the case with the OP, but in my case it explains why I can be so secretive about something and yet be willing to openly discuss the topic should it ever come up.
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