I'm always confused when people are shocked that people hide things from them or lie when they flip out when they are shown\told the truth. If you hear something you don't want to hear, or that hurts your feelings, make sure you are able to still communicate about it and that the air is open for all of that. Otherwise you will be contributing to what you seem to despise so much.
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"The question isn't who is going to let me, it's who is going to stop me." (Ayn Rand)
"The truth is that our finest moments are most likely to occur when we are feeling deeply uncomfortable, unhappy, or unfulfilled. For it is only in such moments, propelled by our discomfort, that we are likely to step out of our ruts and start searching for different ways or truer answers." (M. Scott Peck)
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