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Old 09-08-2009, 10:37 AM   #27 (permalink)
Cimarron29414
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When it comes to the internet, my rule is that I don't do anything in private that I wouldn't do with my SO standing right next to me. Before I act, I ask the question: Would I do this with SO standing here? Works every time for establishing boundaries.

It's clear he can't do the same thing so a line has definitely been crossed. Your reaction to it makes it clear that he has crossed a line. So, you really are asking the wrong question. The right question is "What am I going to do about it?" Leaving this unchecked will result in your relationship ending on his terms, not yours. Don't set yourself up to kick yourself.
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