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Originally Posted by little_tippler
Also, the fact that it's one on one. If he was, say, looking at naked or semi-naked girls in a public chat situation, as occurs in TFP chat currently (  ), I wouldn't care. It is more playful, and has no intent other than to show off, arouse and be aroused. There is no one-on-one interaction really. Seems harmless. |
Whoa, how did I miss this landmine? Help me understand this bit: "Show off, arouse and be aroused." Huh. Sounds like porn and yet sounds like gettin' naked with someone other than your SO. Totally sounds like something an oblivious partner might wanna know about... ya know, before they walk into the computer room some evening and see a bunch of naked strangers on cam and their partner in the buff, making a wrinkly hamburger out of their genitalia.
The whole "but other people make it okay (especially if you know them)" thing is swamping my tiny brain. Guess I'm not up on the philosophy these days.
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All this sexual possession checklist shit in relationships makes me wanna stay single until I start to need erectile dysfunction drugs.
No porn, types of porn, types of cheating... define porn... chat rooms with topless "friends" in it okay, chat rooms with strangers who talk dirty not okay...
Blegch.