So, in other words when she said she loved you but was no longer "in love" with you, it meant that she's dedicated to the shiny new excitement, but not the day to day work of a marriage.
I'll echo Crompsin, the line about love but not in love, is a bullshit line. It either means she loves you but doesn't mind cheating and hurting you horribly - in other words does NOT love you, or is mainly attracted to the earliness of a new relationship where most things go right and she knock's off a day of work to have a fun date, and the realness hasn't set in.
I hope the kids are okay.
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I think the Apocalypse is happening all around us. We go on eating desserts and watching TV. I know I do. I wish we were more capable of sustained passion and sustained resistance. We should be screaming and what we do is gossip. -Lydia Millet
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