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Also, the fact that it's one on one. If he was, say, looking at naked or semi-naked girls in a public chat situation, as occurs in TFP chat currently (), I wouldn't care. It is more playful, and has no intent other than to show off, arouse and be aroused. There is no one-on-one interaction really. Seems harmless.
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That makes no sense. The more people involved, the less harmful it is?
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Porn is a one way street. You're not actually engaged in an one on one conversation with the girl that's jamming a dildo in her pussy.
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Unless its a porn cam site.
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But if you turn that around, and say 'so if a girl decides to speak to one guy, regularly, so he can coax her out of her pants', is her boyfriend going to be quite alright with that?'
We're only human. To the guys, don't tell me you didn't even feel a twinge when I flipped it over.
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Women can not be coaxed out of their pants if they don't want to. At least in my experience. If the guy didn't know about his SOs exhibitionist tendencies, he doesn't know her very well at all. You are giving the guy in the OP way too much power.
To the OP, if it bothers you that much, just be done with him. You are obviously not compatible on some level and sticking around will not make the situation better. Your other option is to turn into psych-bitch and destroy his will to resist so he lives his life the way you want him to.