In my opinion, it totally depends upon the woman and the type of porn she prefers (or doesn't prefer). I think you will find that each woman has a slightly different definition of what constitutes pornography to her as well. Most importantly, I think you have to take into consideration (in a relationship) why she thinks that
you are looking at porn.
My second wife couldn't stand any type of porn and she freaked out if I looked at it. Her definition was extremely broad and contained anything from R-rated movies to you-name-it. She even got insecure with me looking at magazines like Vanity Fair and Cosmo. She thought it was competition for me looking at
her and being content to look at her. Needless to say, that wasn't the worst of her insecurities and our marriage didn't last long.
My SO now is totally cool with me looking at porn, as long as its not underage girls or something extreme like that. We watch commercial porn together and enjoy looking at magazines with pretty women in them, pin-ups, and the generic types of porn that are freely available on the internet and in the titty board. We even enjoy going to titty bars together and getting lap dances. So, that why I say it all depends on the woman.
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Originally Posted by Toaster126
I would like to point out that the viewpoints of people on a forum like this are not typical of the "average" person.
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I kinda feel like that is an over-generalization, Toaster126. I consider myself to be quite average, of average intelligence, and a fair representation of the average American person. Maybe I am too average for this site, then?
In my lifetime, I've been forced to deal with some extreme cases of NOT-average and truly eccentric people and I can tell you that when you run up against it, you recognize it immediately. Maybe I haven't been on this site long enough, grant you that.
But I just happen to believe (from my limited 50 years of experience) that average is far more common than most people are aware of. And truly not-average is far more fringe and uncommon than most people are aware of.
Heh, perhaps my definition of average is over-generalized.
